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My dear sweets,
Vincent and I have been hearing from many of you lately, that you’re struggling with your studies and work. My heart goes out to you and I truly understand, because I’ve been there too.
Let’s look at it this way. You’re in your late teens or your twenties or maybe early thirties, what is it that you’re so anxious about, my darling? This is exactly the time in life when it’s okay to feel lost.
Choose a path bravely and walk it without constantly looking back. No matter which way you go, even if it leads to a dead end. What is there to fear? You can always turn around and choose another road.
I know you’re in a rush to find meaning, to discover a destination for your life. But trust me, we will get there eventually. Whatever is meant for you will find its way to you.
You will fail when you fail. You will succeed when you succeed. Everything is uncertain, yet one truth remains: you will never be younger than you are today. So do what you want. Take the step that’s right in front of you. Don’ stress over whether it’s right or wrong as long as you respect yourself and honor your value(just make sure it’s legal haha).
Most of us will live ordinary lives and that’s perfectly fine. As long as you’re surviving, you’re already doing a wonderful job. Please don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s okay to worry, just don’t worry too much, alright, honey?
Wishing you all the best,
Vincent & Ethan
甜心们好，
最近，Vincent 和我听到很多人说，你们在学习和工作上感到压力很大。我很挂念你们也非常理解你们的心情，因为我也经历过同样的阶段。
不如我们现在换个角度想想，你们正处在十几岁、二十几岁，或者也许是三十出头的年纪，我亲爱的，有什么是值得如此焦虑的呢？这正是人生中不需要对迷茫有负担的阶段呀。
勇敢地选择一条路，然后踏踏实实地走下去，不必频频回头看。哪怕这条路走到了死胡同，又有什么关系呢？你总可以换另一条路继续走。
我知道你们都急于寻找人生的意义，想找到属于自己的方向。但相信我，我们最终都会抵达属于自己的目的地。那些属于你们的，迟早会在合适的时机出现在你们面前。
失败还是成功是没有确定性的，但有一点永远不会变：你永远不会比今天更年轻。所以去做想做的事吧，迈出眼前的那一步。在尊重你自己，认可你自己价值的前提下，不用过多纠结对错（原则问题不在讨论范畴啊哈哈。
大多数人可能都会过着平凡的生活，这不是什么应该妄自菲薄的事。只要还在努力生活，你就已经非常了不起了！请不要对自己太苛刻。小可爱们，焦虑没关系，但别太过，慢慢来，好吗？
要一切顺利呀，
Vincent & Ethan
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